There are two ways to get successful at it.
 Try and fail. Try and fail. Try and fail. Try and succeed.
The downside to this method is that the try and fail cycle can last an extremely long time.
You can’t be sure if you’re on the right track.
You can’t see the roadblock ahead.
All learning is experiential.
 Get a coach and go fast.
LeBron James has a coach.
Jordan Spieth has a coach.
I have a coach.
My coaches have coaches.
The reason for this is simple. Coaches help you go fast.
They can see your blind spots.
They’ve seen people where you want to be and have experienced those people getting there.
They know the trials and tribulations you are going to face and know how to help you navigate them so you can face them and beat them without having to try and fail time and time again.
If you are tired of spinning your wheels I’d suggest you look into getting some coaching.
Yes, it costs money. But the value is immeasurable.
You just have to ask yourself if you want to go slow and try and fail or go fast with a coach.